Verbal and physical violence receives a stamp of approval from the Halachic legal system; it is an inevitable result of the lack of tolerance for the stranger and the different.
The treatment of the secular as a criminal Jew; one who has announced his rejection of G-d or the Divine Revelation to man is an apostate and heretic whom one is commanded to kill with no trial or hearing.
The woman is treated as an aide and assistant to the man and as such she is disenfranchised in the legal system, from holding high office, she is forbidden to study the Talmud, and she does not inherit from her parents or her husband.
In the Jewish religion there is no morality, only obedience to G-d's commands. The world was created for a defined goal and purpose: for the Jewish nation to perform G-d's command, even at the price of their personal happiness.